Getting Netflix My List to show up on TiVo

I have my TiVo connected to the internet via DSL, and am using an antenna for receiving programs. I'm having trouble getting the NetFlix My List updated on my computer. I do have some listings, which may have been generated when I connected the first time. I can delete things from that list through the TiVo, and I have a new addition that NetFlix pushed out today. The trouble is that most of my selections on NetFlix' website do not appear when I click on Netflix on the TiVoCentral or Now Playing List.

The other thing is that I don't have a Video on Demand selection when I click on Settings. Too bad, because I'd also like to access Amazon Prime. Any suggestions?